3 Signs That Your Boyfriend Is Losing Interest
One of a woman’s biggest fears and insecurities is that her boyfriend is losing interest.
One might misread the emotions or actions and cause one to think that you are seeing signs that your boyfriend is losing interest.
It is easy, especially as women tend to get emotionally invested, a bit faster than men do, to overreact or misread actions that are harmless as signs that he is losing interest.
While there are no cut and dried surefire signs your boyfriend is losing interest, there are some common signs that are often displayed by many who are.
Read on to find out about the 3 Most Common Signs that your boyfriend is losing interest:
1. You Are No Longer A Priority
If you were once the first person he sought before making plans, and suddenly he seems to be booked before he gets around to you, this could be a sign that he is losing interest.
A common way that men begin to distance themselves from their partners is by slowly moving them down the lists of priorities. If he is suddenly spending more time at work or own his own interests, he is making a point that he is living his life without you.
If you used to have a date night, and he suddenly starts forgetting, or worse yet, canceling because he has made alternative plans, this is a huge sign that his interest might be waning. Special time spent together is important and making the effort to spend a certain amount of time, or day of the week, with our partner is the way that both parties put in that effort to make each other a priority. When this stops, you should get worried.
2. Communication With You Seems to Be A Chore
You guys used to interact on a regular basis and he seemed more than interested in what you had to say, and the goings on in your life. But now, he seems to equate talking to you with pulling teeth.
He used to call on a regular basis, but has regularly been missing phone calls or not answering the phone when you call. These are all signs of a loss in interest. If he sounds harassed or burdened by your call, then chances are, he is sending a subtle hint that he’d, well, rather not be talking to you, and you should read that, loud and clear, for what it is.
3. He Spends More Time With Friends Than Usual
All guys like to spend nights out on the town with their buddies and this, in and of itself, is nothing unusual. But if your man begins to spend more time with his buddies that he does you, you might begin to worry.
A very obvious sign that your man is losing interest in you is when he does the “double combination” of not only missing out on your date night, but missing it to spend a night at the pub with the guys. This shows where his priorities lie and that his interest is now more geared towards spending time with his friends than you.